Spouse had a mental break

My wife and I have been married for 9 years. In the last 3 months she had a pretty severe mental break. Massive panick attacks and diagnosed PTSD from trauma as a child. She’s been to the ER 4 times because of this.

She claims she has recently unsuppressed memories of her mother severely abusing her and her siblings as a child and that our 2 children were abused by her mother when she cared for them.

My mom flew out for a month and a half because my job required me to travel and we needed the kids to be safe.

We all are in therapy together but my wife and I’s relationship is degrading. She won’t take her medication and is turning to naturopathic medicine as a resolution. She claims she has some kind of fungal infection or parasite and picks at her skin constantly but multiple ER visits and an MRI showed nothing abnormal.

I’ve taken more than a month total off of work because she can’t be trusted to take care of the kids. I flew out for work yesterday and then got a call saying I needed to come or we’ll get divorced because I don’t support her. I’m currently on a plane back less than 24 hours since I landed.

I’m done. I’m exhausted. I’m scared she’ll disappear with my kids. I need them to be safe. I talked to a divorce attorney and he said that our current states has jurisdiction because we’ve lived there greater than 6 months. I’m due to transfer job locations in 30 days to a spot across the country. I’m so scared.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated